Here are some tips on how to stay safe when cyber dating and going from online to off line (the meet)
1. Before you go from online to offline, you should get more information. Find out who your date is. Ask for your date’s first name and last name. Ask where they work and live, what they like and do not like. Ask around if anyone knows the person. Always share your plans a friend or relative (or both) who can follow up on your safety. Let them know who you are meeting, where you are meeting, when you are meeting and when you plan to return. Make sure your date knows you are spreading the word about them.
2. Keep a cell phone with you at all times. Make sure your cell phone is fully charged and take a charger with you for long distance travel. Do not carry large amounts of cash. If you go home with someone, remember to protect your valuables. If you bring someone home, don’t leave your wallet, pocketbook or valuables in sight.
3. Always be aware of your surroundings, if at a party, mix your own drinks and never leave drinks unattended. Getting drunk or being slipped a drug happens all too often. If you go out with a new person, drink in moderation or not at all. If you need to leave for any reason without your drink, (to go to the bathroom, for example) ask for a fresh drink when you return.
4. Consider “double-dating” or taking someone with you for your first offline date. Double-dating can take a lot of the fear out of your first offline encounter.
If double-dating is not an option, consider having someone accompany you and then leave after meeting your date. Add another layer of safety by having that person pick you up at an allocated time. If you cannot double-date or have someone accompany you, you can ask someone to observe discreetly from a distance without intruding on your date.
Finally, and most importantly, if you are going to engage in any sexual activity, ask about your date’s health status. Find out their HIV and STD status. Also remember that not everyone is honest and some will not tell you their real status.
Meeting someone online, chatting and getting to know them can be very exciting. There are many people who have formed life-long friendships and even married via cyber dating. It should be approached with both enthusiasm and caution. Following these PIX11 “Know Your Enemy” tips alone won’t guarantee safety, but may be the difference between a really enjoyable fun date versus one of the worst dates you ever had. Remember, use common sense and always exercise care and vigilance when using social media.
Chloe Green dating Marc Anthony?>
Jennifer Lopez’s ex Marc Anthony has been spotted with a new woman on his arm – Topshop heiress Chloe Green.Marc, 44, and Chloe, 21, were seen in Disneyland, California, together with the singer’s two children from his marriage to J-Lo.
Made In Chelsea’s Chloe and singer Marc held hands and cuddled up close in the snaps, while other pictures showed Chloe carrying Marc’s five-year-old daughter Emme.
Chloe is said to have split from footballer Djibril Cisse last month and previously had an on-screen romance with Made In Chelsea co-star Ollie LockeJ-Lo has been dating her choreographer, 25-year-old Casper Smart, since the end of her seven-year marriage to Marc.
Marc went on to date model Shannon De Lima, but the couple announced that they had ended their one-year romance in January.
You use online dating sites to meet Russian girl? Do you know how they behave on resorts? On the Russian resort provides grooming, brightness, showiness, the discrepancy costume place and time. Only hot Russian girls can go down after breakfast to the pool in heels and sandals to evening makeup. Only Russian tourists, going on a trip to the mountains or ancient ruins, will wear mini-skirts and again, studs, so you do not get off the bus. Hot Russian girls from different parts of Russia, comming to a buffet, put on three full plates of food, do not know the measure of alcohol, sing songs, where they “cover”. Russian women love to complain about foreigners, and that the house they hung, and children and an alcoholic husband for years does not work and all’re spending on drink, but can not kick them out, because children need at least a father. The young hot Russian girls every day in the streets, both on the podium: and hair done and makeup roll will wear the best clothes, manicure, pedicure, perfume, shopping or going to the supermarket for toilet paper. The length of the route does not matter – the corner house, the next street or travel all over all the planned stores. So what foreigners think about us, what they see hot Russian girls? I asked my friends foreign men, many of whom are my good friends to help me in writing the article and answer the important question: “How do they imagine Russian women.” For example, Juha Graaf, musician, 29, Helsinki: “The hot Russian girls have played in my life is very important. But I can only talk about the girls from the Northern capital. We often arrive in St. Petersburg: performing at local clubs, drinking, divorced. Hot Russian girls are absolutely Turretless, if they go to White Castle, it is a long time and to the fullest. They do not know what action – either in alcohol or in love. Very feminine, passionate, very beautiful, very vulnerable. Juha was twice married and divorced, second wife of St. Petersburg. From the beloved girl from St. Petersburg had increased year-old son, the couple do not live together.
According to experts, in recent times many Russian girls look towards Japan. Some of them originally come to work, others are looking for dating even before the journey. But after marriage, all remain unsatisfied in sex. High standard of living and uncharted expanses of land of the rising sun each year on the Japanese islands attract millions of tourists. Among them there are also those who wish to remain there under the wing of local samurai. According to research by Dr. Helen Bebikovoy from Tel Aviv University, married Russian women and Japanese men – a phenomenon quite common.
One of the main problems faced by tourists after a successful marriage is a mental barrier, which for many becomes a heavy burden. According to Helena, there are some fundamental differences in the understanding of sex before and after marriage. If the approach of Russian women in the sexual life of spouses is similar to the European, then Japanese is their understanding of the social dimension, reported Internet. “I think that my husband started an affair. How else can one explain the lack of sexual relations between us”, – complains Valentine is one of the asked Elena Russian girls, lived in a marriage with a Japanese husband of more than 10 years. Eroticism and sexual activity in Japan account for premarital period, while the Russian girls are paying this much attention, and after her marriage, wishing to remain a woman and after the birth of children. For the Japanese, as a spouse in the first place is an integral part of their social life. Moreover, as previously reported portal dating site, every third couple in Japan avoid sex in their family life. These alarming statistics that were published in a study conducted with support from the Government of Japan. In a study of the Israeli sociologist took part in 37 married women, 70 percent of them aged 25 34 years. The average age of the Japanese elect stood at 46 years. Nevertheless, despite cultural differences and the problem of understanding, the number of mixed marriages between Western women and Eastern men “continues to soar. According to statistics, since the emergence of this trend in the early 90-ies the number of women who immigrated to Japan increased 15 times. In 2005, the visa in the country have received seven thousand Russian tourists, two-thirds of them – Brides. The very same Elena Bebikova immigrated to Israel in 1992 from St. Petersburg in the program “NAALE. During his studies at the Faculty of Sociology and Oriental studies at the Jewish University, she decided for myself that will specialize in Japan. Second and third degree Elena was at Kyoto University, held in Japan for six years, and then returned to Israel.